Abortion

Abortion as birth control sickens me. But that is just my personal opinion. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

But I wish I would stop hearing men say they feel victimized by the fact that they don’t “get” to make the choice. Let’s forget for a moment that your “choice” occurred before your decision to have sex.

Let’s say you get a woman pregnant. She doesn’t tell you until it’s “too late” – thusly you shouldn’t be repsonsible for the resulting pregnancy, because had you known, you would have pushed for an abortion – supposedly…

Ok, so you get a woman pregnant and she tells you right away. This is a woman you are seeing strictly for sex and whom you have minimal to no feelings for. You tell her to have an abortion and you pay for it.

Are you in the clear? Morally, no. This woman is now changed forever – having carried a life inside her and killed it – having to deal with that emotional scar for the rest of her life.

Even if it is totally the right thing to do, she is going to have emotional, and probably physical, fallout from it.

But the man thinks once the fetus is killed, everything is re-set to zero, the way it was before he fucked the woman he got pregnant, and all is right with the world.

Wrong. So, so very wrong. You can’t say, “If I’d known I would have chosen to abort, therefore should not be responsible…”

Because you ARE responsible. Even if she DOES decide to abort – you and your choices have caused a life to happen – and then be either born out (literally) or cut short before having a chance to grow.

And the woman, the beautiful, fragile, strong, trusting, cynical, etc. person who carried this life will be forever affected, if she is in the least human….

And you can’t just “abort” it and call it even.

My biggest bitch with deadbeat dads is that they want to pretend their children don’t/never exist(ed).

I’m too tired to explain how very full of shit you are and how very wrong you are. Go fuck yourself “(Fred)Eric(k)”…..